What Happens When You Are Not Bi Curious Anymore

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People who are bi curious are the ones who are thinking of experimenting with their sexuality. In conclusion, they are curious about trying various types of relations, meaning that, if they are heterosexuals, they may be interested in people of the same sex now. Finding out what is your true sexual inclination can only be done by experimenting, but many people wonder what will happen with them afterwards. The answer is simple: if you found out that you are heterosexual, nothing is changed; if you discover you are a homosexual or a lesbian, then you should think about coming out.

Coming out is one of the most dreaded moments in the life of a person who used to be bi curious and has now discovered that they are homosexual or lesbian. In order to make this transition in the perfect way, you have to consider a few aspects, that should not turn your decision, but should help you take it easier.

Being comfortable with the decision you have made and with its implications is very important. This does not mean that you should be embarrassed about anything, but actually that once you become open about your sexuality, you have to be ready to answer some questions. Some people may not say anything about it, others may shower you with their own opinions and questions and there are the ones who will make fun of you… regardless of these, it is important for you to be able to stand your ground! 


Are you going to tell everyone is the next thing you should ponder upon. At some point, everyone will find out, but you have to tell the people who are closest to you and whom you care about, as your family and friends. For those who come out, families and friends should be very supportive, as this is a transition that can be affected by the littlest of things. Therefore, think of all the people you want to tell and about how they may react. If you have friends or family members with an old fashioned mentality, you may not come across the support you were expecting, but you have to find a way to turn their opinion or at least to make them understand your decision.

Patience combined with the right moment will bring perfect results. Do not spring this news on your parents as soon as you enter the house door, for example! Wait for them to have time to talk to you about this subject and to be in a state of mind that is not distracted by any other mundane issue. If you still live with your parents and are financially dependent on them, you have to consider the implications of what you are about to tell them. There is nothing wrong with coming out! However, some parents, with a more traditional mentality, may not be able to accept what you are about to tell them! In this situation, it is best to find a way to tell them without upsetting them.

The most important thing that you have to consider before you take any type of action is if you are absolutely sure that you are not still bi curious! If you still feel uncertain in your sexual orientation, then you can be sure of the fact that you are still bi curious and you should not come out. On the other hand, if things are pretty obvious and you are comfortable with your decision in connection to your sexuality, then coming out is the next step for you.

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